{"id":17,"date":"2013-11-20T18:39:00","date_gmt":"2013-11-20T18:39:00","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/originalorknot.com\/?p=17"},"modified":"2015-04-05T14:12:12","modified_gmt":"2015-04-05T19:12:12","slug":"19th-day-of-thanksgiving","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/originalorknot.com\/?p=17","title":{"rendered":"19th Day of Thanksgiving"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Yeah, yeah, yeah. I forgot again.<\/p>\n<p>Today (or yesterday) I am (or was) thankful for the education I was fortunate to receive. I didn&#8217;t always take advantage of it the way I could and should have, but it was there.<\/p>\n<p>I went to kindergarten (circa the dawn of time) at the\u00a0<a href=\"http:\/\/fbcofprichard.com\/\" target=\"_blank\">First Baptist Church of Prichard<\/a> (Alabama). Then 1st through 4th grades at Glendale Elementary, across the street and down the block from our house. I just read online that Glendale closed in 2008, and they announced three years ago that it would be torn down. I&#8217;m guessing it&#8217;s gone now, but it was a nice school way back when.<\/p>\n<table style=\"margin-left: auto; margin-right: auto; text-align: center;\" cellspacing=\"0\" cellpadding=\"0\">\n<tbody>\n<tr>\n<td style=\"text-align: center;\"><a style=\"clear: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-left: auto; margin-right: auto;\" href=\"http:\/\/originalorknot.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/11\/Screen-Shot-2013-11-20-at-11.07.44-AM.jpg\"><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" src=\"http:\/\/originalorknot.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/11\/Screen-Shot-2013-11-20-at-11.07.44-AM-300x264.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"320\" height=\"282\" border=\"0\" \/><\/a><\/td>\n<\/tr>\n<tr>\n<td style=\"text-align: center;\"><i>It looked better before it was painted white &amp; boarded up.\u00a0BTW, do you see those steps? When I went to school there, the &#8220;handrails,&#8221; the concrete slabs angled down on either side, represented a major milestone of childhood: you had to be big enough and have enough nerve to slide down them. (I never did. We moved away before I developed nerve.)<\/i><\/td>\n<\/tr>\n<\/tbody>\n<\/table>\n<p><a style=\"clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;\" href=\"http:\/\/originalorknot.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/11\/Screen-Shot-2013-11-20-at-11.27.25-AM.jpg\"><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" src=\"http:\/\/originalorknot.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/11\/Screen-Shot-2013-11-20-at-11.27.25-AM-263x300.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"175\" height=\"200\" border=\"0\" \/><\/a>In 1966, after I finished 4th grade, my family moved to San Antonio, and I finished elementary school at <a href=\"http:\/\/www.nisd.net\/sites\/default\/files\/styles\/campus-image\/public\/school_photos\/IMG_1383.JPG?itok=xUJE0mnk\" target=\"_blank\">Thunderbird Hills Elementary<\/a>. I walked there, most days. According to Google Maps, it&#8217;s only a mile. It felt longer. (My favorite teacher there\u2014possibly my favorite teacher of all\u2014was <a href=\"http:\/\/www.since1853.com\/id554.html\" target=\"_blank\">Mrs. Slovacek<\/a> in the 5th grade.)<\/p>\n<p>After that, <a href=\"http:\/\/www.nisd.net\/schools\/info\/43\" target=\"_blank\">Sul Ross Jr. High<\/a> (yes, children, that&#8217;s what it was called in those days). It was a good enough school, I guess. My memories of it are hazy, my brain awash with a tsunami of hormones. Adolescence was not an easy time for me. I owe a great deal of thanks to all the teachers and staff at Sul Ross back then, for allowing me to continue living.<\/p>\n<p>High school was <a href=\"http:\/\/www.nisd.net\/schools\/info\/1\" target=\"_blank\">Oliver Wendell Holmes<\/a>. It&#8217;s <a href=\"http:\/\/www.nisd.net\/holmes\/sites\/holmes\/files\/styles\/rotator\/public\/rotator-images\/rotator5.jpg?itok=4pn0xOjU\" target=\"_blank\">the round one<\/a>. Obviously built in the 60s, &#8220;<a href=\"http:\/\/www.slayengineering.com\/SubmittedToDesignServices\/image\/Portfolio\/Educational\/Holmes_HS.JPG\" target=\"_blank\">the round one<\/a>&#8221; is how everybody identified it. It was (and I&#8217;ll bet still is) a school joke to tell freshmen to go to the end of the hall and turn right. See, round school\u2026halls don&#8217;t have an end\u2026uh, okay, moving on\u2026<\/p>\n<p>My spotty college career started right after high school at <a href=\"http:\/\/www.angelo.edu\/\" target=\"_blank\">Angelo State University<\/a>, studying <a href=\"http:\/\/www.angelo.edu\/dept\/arts\/theatre\/\" target=\"_blank\">Theatre<\/a>. After a year there, my parents decided to move back to Mobile, so I transferred to the <a href=\"http:\/\/www.southalabama.edu\/\" target=\"_blank\">University of South Alabama<\/a>, where I took every <a href=\"http:\/\/www.southalabama.edu\/drama\/\" target=\"_blank\">Theatre<\/a> course they offered, then dropped out. That was College, Part 1.<\/p>\n<p>Years passed. I moved back to San Antonio, went to work and eventually got married. My well-employed new husband asked if I wanted to finish my degree. I got copies of all my transcripts, took them around to all the colleges and universities in San Antonio (there are a bunch), saying, &#8220;Here&#8217;s what I&#8217;ve got. I don&#8217;t care what I major in. How fast can I graduate?&#8221;<\/p>\n<div style=\"clear: both; text-align: center;\"><a style=\"clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;\" href=\"http:\/\/originalorknot.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/11\/Main-20Building-20-front-20facade-20partial-20view-20Our-20Lady-20of-20the-20Lake-20University-medium.jpg\"><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" src=\"http:\/\/originalorknot.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/11\/Main-20Building-20-front-20facade-20partial-20view-20Our-20Lady-20of-20the-20Lake-20University-medium.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"320\" height=\"238\" border=\"0\" \/><\/a><\/div>\n<p>So College, Part 2, began at\u00a0<a href=\"http:\/\/www.ollusa.edu\/s\/1190\/start2012.aspx\" target=\"_blank\">Our Lady of the Lake<\/a> (where an admissions officer casually mentioned that my ACT scores would have gotten me a full scholarship if I had gone there after high school\u2014as I entered the last few years of paying off my student loans). I quit my job and enrolled. Rich got laid off three weeks later. But, since he had seen the handwriting on the wall, he had already applied at <a href=\"http:\/\/www.swri.org\/\" target=\"_blank\">Southwest Research Institute<\/a>, and started work three weeks after I started class. Yeah, sometimes things work out.<\/p>\n<p>BTW, going back to school made me want to kick myself for the way I did things in Part 1. I discovered that ninety percent of making good grades\u2014possibly more than that, really\u2014is showing up and following the instructions. And, also, no matter how I tried, I simply couldn&#8217;t make my school work take up eight hours a day, every day. I&#8217;d read and re-read and take notes and do assignments and RE-read\u2026and five hours would have passed. It might have been different if I had been studying medicine or nuclear physics or something, but the fact is that going to school (<b><i>just<\/i><\/b> going to school, to be clear, I was NOT working at the same time) is not the same as a full time job.<\/p>\n<table style=\"float: right; margin-left: 1em; text-align: right;\" cellspacing=\"0\" cellpadding=\"0\">\n<tbody>\n<tr>\n<td style=\"text-align: center;\"><a style=\"clear: right; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-left: auto; margin-right: auto;\" href=\"http:\/\/originalorknot.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/11\/428593443_0fd99a2d3e_z.jpg\"><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" src=\"http:\/\/originalorknot.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/11\/428593443_0fd99a2d3e_z.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"320\" height=\"240\" border=\"0\" \/><\/a><\/td>\n<\/tr>\n<tr>\n<td style=\"text-align: center;\"><i>See that flat area between the buildings? That&#8217;s\u00a0a second-story<br \/>\ncourtyard,\u00a0and I spent many happy hours there, studying.\u00a0There&#8217;s a<br \/>\nbig loquat tree\u00a0on the other side, away from the camera,\u00a0and you could<br \/>\ntell\u00a0how far down\u00a0students could reach\u00a0by how far up the ripe\u00a0loquats<br \/>\nstopped.\u00a0<b>Loved\u00a0<\/b>that spot!<\/i><\/td>\n<\/tr>\n<\/tbody>\n<\/table>\n<p>A year and a half and $8000 later, I finally graduated. I have a degree in Media Communications, from the last year they offered it as a degree. (I also had a minor in\u2014what else?\u2014Theatre, and possibly History, too, because it turned out I had taken a bunch of history classes. Go figure.)<\/p>\n<p>Having a college degree has opened doors for me, and it actually happens to be in something that I&#8217;ve found myself working in over and over. So I&#8217;m grateful for the opportunities I&#8217;ve had\u2014even though I wasn&#8217;t quite astute enough to take full advantage of them.<\/p>\n<p>My very clever niece could have easily graduated from high school early, but said, &#8220;It&#8217;s a free education. Why wouldn&#8217;t I get as much out of it as I can?&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>Wow. Wish I had been that smart!<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Yeah, yeah, yeah. I forgot again. Today (or yesterday) I am (or was) thankful for the education I was fortunate to receive. I didn&#8217;t always take advantage of it the way I could and should have, but it was there. 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